Randomly, I bumped into one popular verse. Taken from 1 Corinthians 13. I know it sounds lame, but in uncertain moment, I used to back to faith things.
taken from here
4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[b] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
So, how big is your love?
How pure is your love?
How you define your love?